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TEXASGRANDMA
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okay that was suppose to say "I know what you are going through" I mean you can't know what someone is going through if you haven't been there.
Note to self (do not post when you have a pounding headache)
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TEXASGRANDMA
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The best thing you can do is listen and be there for him. The worst thing you can do is say " I don't what you are going through". From personal experence when someone who had not been down the road I was travleing said that it made me angry. I will be praying for him and his family and for you, too!
-------------------- Luk 21:28 And when these things begin to come to pass, then look up, and lift up your heads; for your redemption draweth nigh. http://www.indieheaven.com/artists/mm (son-in-law)http://www.myspace.com/mireles
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DannyBoy
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quote: Originally posted by Katie York: My boyfriend, yesterday, learned that his father only has a few more months to live, due to cancer spreading. My boyfriend is very upset and I do not know what to tell him, since I've never been in that situation. I am trying to be very understanding, but I'm afraid that I might do or say something wrong. I have prayed that the Lord may give him and his father peace. I would really appreciate it if someone else prayed for him as well.
I will also pray that you two and those around you recieve wisdom in this delicate situation.
Your Brother in Christ, DannyBoy
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bandb5
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Katie-
Consider it done. My prayers are with your boyfiend, his father and you, so you can give him the strength he needs. Don't worry about not knowing what to say...just be there for him and let him know you love him. Give him a shoulder to cry on if he needs it.
God be with you.
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Katie York
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My boyfriend, yesterday, learned that his father only has a few more months to live, due to cancer spreading. My boyfriend is very upset and I do not know what to tell him, since I've never been in that situation. I am trying to be very understanding, but I'm afraid that I might do or say something wrong. I have prayed that the Lord may give him and his father peace. I would really appreciate it if someone else prayed for him as well.
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