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Posted by Hector (Member # 5484) on :

This prayer request is for my girlfriend Leilani . She is under alot of stress and has become so overwhelmed with school and everything else going on that she has begun to show signs of depression. She does not know Jesus, so she doesn't know that he can help her. she doesnt know that church and praying would help her. she thinks isolating herself and being alone and away from everyone will be the answer. Please pray for her.
also please pray for our relationship. as i said, she believes that isolating herself will make things better so she broke up with me although she says she will return to me in the future. In her anger and depression, she slept with another man. she knows it was a mistake but it will be verry hard for me to get over this so please pray for me that I can stop being attacked with thoughts and images of this act which are making me depressed. thank you

Posted by Bat Elohim (Member # 3739) on :

Welcome to the board, Hector.

I will be praying for you and your girlfriend.

Maybe you should go see her and tell her that you forgive her and tell her that you can forgive her because of your relationship with Christ and that she can have that kind of a relationship too. The best way for her to become a Christian is to see the ones she loves protraying Christ in front of her.

Blessings and Shalom,
Joanna.

Posted by Hector (Member # 5484) on :

first, thank you for your prayers and for replying. I have forgiven her and have invited her to church. but she is isolating herself from everyone. I told her that I am here for her if she needs a friend and am praying for her. she is not open to coming to church with me because she thinks i am trying to convert her although i told her I am not. I am praying that in time, God opens her to the idea of coming with me.

Posted by SrvnHim (Member # 5439) on :

Hello Hector! Welcome to the Board! [spiny]

I will certainly keep you and your girlfriend in my prayers. Believe me, I know what it is like to become overwhelmed with school! I will pray that God gives her the strength to endure!

God Bless!
Jen

Posted by HisGrace (Member # 3438) on :

Welcome Hector. Praying that your girlfriend learns to see that only God can help her sort out the turmoil in her life.

In the meantime, praying that our lifting her up in intercession will help relieve the stress of her studies. [Prayer]

Posted by Pleasemaranatha (Member # 5150) on :

Welcome Hector and know I will keep praying also.

Welcome SrvnHim also.

Posted by SrvnHim (Member # 5439) on :

Thanks Pleasemaranatha! [Smile]

Posted by Hector (Member # 5484) on :

thank you all for your prayers. there hasnt been any change in situation yet, but when the time is right, I am sure God will make things happen. I ask for your continued prayers for Leilani and also for me as I try my best to deal with my emotions. pray that God helps me with my faith and keeps me in good spirits
thank you.