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John Hale
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The prodigal son. This is a prophecy about the two sheep pens Christ mentioned having (Jew and Gentile). And it is interchangeable. It is also an insight into Godly parenting.
There were no guarantees the son would return. Still the father waited watching so he could see him coming from a far distance if he returned. When he did return the father ran to the son (an indignity in that day).
Take from it what you will. Luke 15:11-32.
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jean123
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John 8:7
So when they continued asking Him,he lifted up himself,and said unto them,He that is without sin among you,let him first cast a stone at her.
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WildB
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Originally posted by jean123:
always pray for their souls. always protect others but do not wish anything bad to happen to someone.---THOSE WITHOUT SIN CAST THE FIRST STONE----always love everyone
Sorry I have know nothing to these.
They should die or will in lockup..and die. I have no use for any that would hertz a dream k.They will die. But I suppose you say it will not fiX it?
I say it will keep it from sapping to a noteworthy.
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jean123
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always pray for their souls. always protect others but do not wish anything bad to happen to someone.---THOSE WITHOUT SIN CAST THE FIRST STONE----always love everyone
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botham
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Wild B--point taken. But we are told, not asked by God, to forgive. Forgiving does not mean that the criminal should not get what justice demands. These are two different things. My concern is not for child molesters but you. What red blooded adult wouldn't feel like eliminating such a criminal if our child was molested? And, we can only truly say what we would do if, God forbid, it happened. But again, I take your point. Meet my two friends, Smith and Wesson huh.
God bless, Botham
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botham
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Wild B--I think you mean 'shanked' not shafted. I detect some anger and if you have any personal experience with such offenders then it is understandable. All I can say is please take the Higher road of forgiveness.
If this person were to be killed by other prisoners then the killer will go to hell. We cannot hope, no matter how heinous the crime, that prisoners who are not sanctioned by the state to take lives, become our executioners. Many of them are there for murder already and need to repent and receive Jesus Christ.
I was sexually abused as a child and I think that if most people were honest that they would admit to at least some inappropriate sexual interference in their childhood.
This area of crime is the most difficult as to rehabilitation and I think we would agree that most if not all of these offenders will never in this life lose the urge to sexually offend. It seems like our enemy, the devil, gets such a complete grip on some men that the only solution is life imprisonment in segregation. God is able to release anyone from any sin but as a society we must err on the side of protecting children.
It seems like every week we see a horrible story about a known sex offender killing a child. It needs to stop. My prayer is for authorities to keep these individuals incarcerated once it becomes clear as to their evil tendency.
As believers we must pray for the soul of the offenders also to receive Jesus Christ. But how many deaths must it take before humanistic psychologists understand that they cannot change the psyche of such individuals. God bless, Botham
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WildB
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It is your duty to make shur the little ones are out of harms way.
Im am surprised that he didn't get shanked in prison and more astonished that he is not being monitored out on the street.
Unbalanced sexual activity is a endorphin high to the user.
Don't be surprised if he really starts hurting little ones progressively worse.
Shur by all means continue to pray for him.
Now is not the time to shelter his sin. Now is the time to protect those that can't.
Its really to bad he didnt get shanked in prison.
Luke.17
[2] It were better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and he cast into the sea, than that he should offend one of these little ones.
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jean123
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I am a widow also for a year and 3 months. I have one son.HE is 17 yrs old. i just got save a year and 1 month ago. There is no one in my family saved. but the Lord is working on them. Please do not turn your back on your son. Jesus would never turn on us. always fast and pray for him. My dad abuse me and I forgave him. the church and I fast and pray for him to be save before he died. he got saved a day before he died[he died 2 months ago].So just have faith and always love everyone!I will be praying
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mathews
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I will defintely pray for your son. Let God make every situation alright. We are nathing only God can make his mind to come to him. I will I will Pray every day to God. I am from India
Dont worry one day you will see the victory. None of the Prayers will wasted.
Let me cut short with love
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Amen botham, I wholly agree with your prayer and advice..... ![[thumbsup2]](graemlins/thumbsup2.gif)
Sister hobbygirl my heart goes out to you, I add my prayers for you and your son and family to botham's
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botham
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Hello Darcia--My name is Botham and I live in Canada. I do understand your situation and I know that it is hard to explain just how awful things are. I am a parent and I can imagine how devastating it must be to feel like turning your back on your own child.
Addiction to pornography and the horrible things that can occur as a result, is a cancer in society. Our enemy, satan takes the beauty of intimacy and so destroys the mind, mainly of men, because he knows the visual appeal that stimulates the hormones.
I am going to pray a number of things. That you receive an extra amount of grace from God to drive away the guilt and condemnation that satan has lied about when you were vulnerable. He, satan, is rebuked and I plead the very Blood of Christ on your heart for healing. Please ask your believing friends to plead the blood for the sake of your mind.
I pray that God will undertake a mighty move upon your son unlike anything he has yet experienced. I rebuke the devil from your son's life in the Name Above All Names, Jesus Christ. I speak into the realm of principalities and powers that they are to take their misery and lies and leave your son, in the Name of Jesus.
I pray that many believers will unite with us in unity before the Father in Heaven, and by the Blood of The Lamb, for your son and the many who have fallen victim to his sinful exploits. That the daughters will be healed and that they will forgive and experience the release from the bondage of sorrowful memories. I pray that all the foul works of satan in this entire situation be rebuked and that The Holy Spirit will begin restoration not just to the former state but to a glorious victory for Jesus Christ.
Please receive these prayers and those of others so that the practical decisions that you need to make as to your future relationsip with your son, can be made in peace, not turmoil. God does not want any of us, including you, to be in a state of chaos. Your duty is to pray for your son, not be dragged down with him. But let's believe God who is astronomically greater than this situation, and that Christ has accomplished the healing at The Cross. May God richly bless you in the days ahead and forever. Botham
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My name is Darcia (pronounced dar-sha); I am a widow. My wonderful husband died 1yr.4months ago, after 41 yrs. of marriage. We were not Saved while raising our children, but we did teach them Morals; Modesty; Honesty; Respect for others etc.
After we were Saved, we shared our "Great News
about Jesus", with ALL our children, who, by this time, were all married and had kids of thier own.
(we have 5 kids;3 boys and 2 girls).We lived our faith and talked about all that God has for us by believing in Jesus. We did not "force" anything on them; we would just "ADD" little messages about how great it was to believe in Jesus; read the Bible and share Gods' love. Four of our kids asked Christ into thier lives'! WOW! But, one son, (who lived in another State, refused to even talk to us anymore. He wanted us to "shut-up" about "...all this God business...", etc.,but even when we did not talk about Jesus,he found other excuses to push us out of his and his familys lives. (O.K. A little background info.)Then, about 8 years ago, that sons' wife called us and told us that our son had sexually molested his 2 daughters, and, had a child with another woman. He WAS arrested; Tried in court and went to prison. There is so much more to tell, but, bottom line, when he got out of prison, he moved here near where I live; got a job; re-married,BUT, he still is not Saved; he lies a lot, and his siblins (who all have children) want nothing to do with him. I, on the other hand, tried to overlook all his faults; forgiving him; telling him many times that I loved him AND sharing the love of Jesus with him.This time he listens, BUT, he has yet to accept Christ as his Savior. He wants to continue having a relationship with me. As a Chistian, I, at first felt that to "turn my back on him" would be wrong. But now, I WANT to. I had heard that he was causing problems with others, and then, a friend sent me an addy: it went to a porn site, with a picture of him and his stats, which were correct;(age;town he lived in, etc.)From there, that site led to others. They are ALL so discusting. He had once swore to me that he would never get involved in porn again;(one of the things that helped lead him to molesting his little daughters). But, again he has lied and I have the proof. For some reason, he is not on any kind of probation. But, he is on the sex offenders list and has to report any changes. I am 60 yrs. old; I'm still mourning my husband; I have 18 grandchildren and 3 great-grand children. Yes, I am his mother and I am a Christian. I have witnessed to him and expressed my love for him as his mom. But, I just can't handle his actions anymore. Would I be letting GOD down by "turning my back on him?" What do other Christian parents do? I attend church; have asked for prayers. Yet, I still feel so discusted towards my son and just want him to go away. Then, feel guilty for feeling that way. Anyone who would like to make suggestions; give me scriptures and pray for me: It would be deeply appreciated.
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